The goal of almost every person in a relationship is to build a strong, harmonious and lasting union, but not everyone succeeds or with varying degrees of success. Often, only after some time it is revealed that the partner is actually unbearable, and the relationship has already gone far. Psychologist Valery Gut explained how to notice a problematic soul mate on the way up and not waste time or energy on her.
The expert said that the first call – when a partner is looking for support or consolation in the second half. This hints at a neurotic personality type, which will then lead to scandals and conspiracies on an almost planetary scale.
Another red flag criticality in everything. Neurotic people know better how and to whom to live, so every day with them will be like on a powder keg. Such people like to dramatize and sort things out, so their nature may well break through on the first or second date.
This type of people loves to look perfect, so they try to win over a couple. They can behave overly caring or brag about your accomplishmentsto show how impossibly unique they all are.
It also happens the other way around: a partner on a date may admit with a chuckle that he is still a loser, although in fact he has several higher educations and a good job. And this is not mere modesty, but complexeswhich will bring many problems in the future.
Moods in neurotics change at the snap of a finger. Here they are cheerful and smiling, but suddenly they were offended by a joke and became cold and distant. And if you do not agree with their opinion or react to a compliment in a way that they did not expect, it will be trouble.
At the same time, such people can generally feel tense. They seem tofrom everywhere waiting for attackstherefore, they are suspicious of everything and can be silent on dates a lot.
Often neurotics are embarrassed to express their opinion and go on about the surroundings. They may agree to the waiter’s suggestion and will not be outraged if their order is mixed up. In the future, they will also live in the interests of their partner, which will lead to quarrels and scandals.
People with this type of personality rarely know how to love and rather hide in relationships from fears, anxieties and complexes. It will not be possible to build a normal and healthy alliance with them.
And if you managed to create a long relationship, but they seem to be beginning to outlive themselves, check them for reliability. Psychologists have previously talked about hidden signs that indicate an imminent breakup or divorce. Moreover, it is quite possible to fight them, so it is better to find them sooner rather than later.
