Men who already have a relationship text other girls because they lack something in the relationship. At the same time, the goals of such communication can be different, she told Gazeta.ru. Ru” psychologist Nadezhda Akimova. It is possible that the guy is stupidly looking for a mistress, and then you should not build illusions about this, or maybe he has an age crisis and needs help.
According to the expert, the saddest story is when a guy texts other girls in order to find a mistress. This is what males usually do when they lack love and sex in their own relationship. It is enough to read the correspondence here, and everything is immediately clear.
But there are also more difficult situations. For example, sometimes a man just wants to communicate, to be listened to and understood. This happens if a girl is not particularly in the mood for long conversations with her boyfriend – you have to pour out your soul to someone else.
The psychologist recalled that correspondence with other women may appear against the backdrop of a midlife crisis. The fact is that men, like women, find it hard to come to terms with gray hair and aging. Therefore, we have to prove that they are still nothing: they are quite attractive and in demand among the opposite sex.
A similar story is the man’s attempts to assert himself and the desire for “new victories,” the psychologist explained. But here it is not clear whether this will be just communication, or whether it will continue.
Akimova recalled that men often consider themselves polygamous, but in most cases this is not polygamy, but a lack of education. Some people do nothing but collect “trophies” all their lives. So it’s better to think about whether it’s worth connecting your life with such a comrade.
And the last reason for correspondence is faith in friendship. Although many people say that friendship between a man and a woman is impossible, there are a large number of examples to the contrary. The Secret told about the nuances of such communication here.